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Changes and The Simple Things...

8/22/2011

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As life continues, changes occur.  Some are easier to roll with than others. 

One component I continue to work through – transitioning,  If I am off on an adventure, traveling somewhere, I find it emotionally draining to return home.  Small changes set my mind spinning these days – in the past I would roll with them (Most of the time :) ). 

I’ve decided to make one of the biggest changes, I will be moving out of my house, our house.  I’m excited that I have the opportunity to move into the country – have more space and start a new chapter.  But…I am leaving the 4 walls that held many memories for Joe and I.  Memories cannot be taken.  They will move with me.  But I can’t tell my heart / mind how to feel.  If it hurts, it hurts.

This weekend – I lost it.  I broke down and realized this will be one of the toughest changes I face…one of the toughest I face without Joe.

We had always dreamed of moving out of our house (apartment) and into a home with no renters.  When we finally got serious about this – the cancer had returned and financially our house (apartment) was the best option.  Dreams are ever changing, evolving…I am working towards a new dream.

As I continue to pack, things of Joe’s surround me.  I never knew of somethings…all the sports jerseys I found in the basement :)…And other things bring me back to the happiest moments…two lanterns we bought when we were in Mexico.  But the greatest was a list…A list on white computer paper, with scribbles surrounding the edge, in Joe’s handwriting / chicken scratch, titled “The Simple Things “.

Joe – you were always the calming spirit I needed and helped me keep life in perspective.  Here’s to the simple things in life – that make us who we are, bring love and laughter to our lives, and make living worth it.

The Simple Things – by Joe
-Twins Fest
-Frito Limo Bus
-Kirsten / Payton
-Benefit #1
-Benefit #2
-Carolina with Deano
-Olive Garden / Arcadia
-Dean’s Wedding
-Friendship with Tiff
-Shing Wako
-Vegas
-Colorado / World Series
-Chicago #1
-Xmas at Grandmas
-Poopy Basement
-Arizona
-Kansas City
-Milwaukee with Friends
-Milwaukee with Rach
-Zoe
-Rabbit (0 for 4)
-Ralph
-Ossawinamakee (spelling?)
-Florida – 8th grade
-Moving
-Class Trip
-Band Trips
-Duluth Days
-Jeff and Dean take 1 (First night)
-Jeff and Dean Adventures (cruise)
-South Carolina Trips
-St. Thomas
-Florida Spring Training
-Bergler Cabin
-Isla Mujeres
-12 Bars of Christmas
-30th Birthday in Chicago
-Fantasy Football
-Denard Span (Autograph Party)
-Keith Urban
-Jovi / Daughtry
-Nate / Brody  / Theo
-Wiffle Ball
-Softball
-Basillica Block Party – Allison
-Loggers Game
-Wedding #1
-Wedding #2
-Katie’s Wedding
-Angie’s Wedding

For someone who had the all the right in the world to be down – unappreciative…  He wouldn’t think of it.  He appreciated everyone, everything, every moment.  Here’s to adding a new entry on my list of simple things – moving to the country.

Love, Hugs and a New Address –

Rach
P.O. Box 1104
Winona, MN 55987

8 Comments
Carolyn Goree
8/22/2011 01:57:50 am

Love you Rachel--u r an inspiration to me~I wish you all the love and happiness in your new adventures-I know Joe is approving and still loving you for the wonderful you are!

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barb link
8/22/2011 04:14:41 am

Wow. The more I read the more I feel like I learn how truly special Joe was, how truly special YOU are.

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dee and jim
8/22/2011 09:49:46 am

Rachel, you continue to inspire me..your strength in spirit is amazing. This new chapter in your life is meant to be and we wish you God's speed as you move out into God's country. We love you and hope to stay in touch for many years to come. Jim and Dee Vogel

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Jessica Hill
8/24/2011 03:30:52 pm

Many if my happiest moments are with all the cousins at the lake and Christmas at Grandma's. Joe had it right! The simple things = everything;)

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Becky
8/24/2011 04:56:54 pm

Rachel - Your so refreshing! Thank you! Thank you!

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Casey
8/26/2011 05:26:06 pm

I think Joe might have omitted "Game 6" from the list for reasons I won't get into on this blog. :P That's okay as it's one of my ALL-TIME BEST memories. "...and that one is GONE to tie it!!!"----and----"...McGee goes back...GRAND SLAM!!!" Joe knows what I mean by those Al Michaels calls. There are many, many more good ones, but I will always remember when we were 10 years old and the Twins were like gods. Our son Brady (Brady Joseph Ebert) will turn 1 next week. He's a great little guy and we can't help but think that Joe is watching over him. Thanks Joe...and thanks Rachel. Love, Casey and Laurie

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Ellie Justice
8/28/2011 10:12:49 am

Dear SWEET RACHEL,

Thank you for sharing all your thoughts and feelings with us...we truly gain so much from you...

YOU are:"BEAUTIFUL", "SWEET", "AMAZING",
"INSPIRING"...so "FULL OF LIFE"!
It is no wonder why Joe fell in love with you.

As you move out into the country and look at the night sky...REMEMBER this...AS CONSTANT AS THE STARS in the sky...JOE'S LOVE IS ALWAYS WITH YOU!

LOVE & BIG HUGS...

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    Joe Vogel began his battle with cancer in 2006. He became a leader in his community and a hero among his friends and family. He made it his personal mission to help in the fight against cancer. His wife Rachel is carrying out his dream to help families dealing with cancer and to find a cure for this disease.

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